I avoid letting it go over 1000F post turbine. Before tuning/intercooling it would easily hit 1100-1200 post turbine on mild hills in the city even. Now it's very very hard to even get to 1000F towing 3500lb up an 8% grade in 90F weather.
If you find it's getting over a 1000F easily on yours, it's time for some tuning. What you need is a better air/fuel ratio (leaner is cooler). You'll need to increase air (boost) without an increase in fuel. Get a manual boost controller and an adjustable air bleed valve. Tune for 12-14psi from the turbo, but use the air bleed valve to trick the computer into thinking there is less boost. This way it won't add as much fuel. You'll run cooler EGT's, get more power and better fuel economy. Here is a thread on this:
Reducing 2lte egt's