Tore everything down this evening to address the leaking oil return line and discovered a host of problems.
-Turbo nuts had backed themselves off a good 1/16"
-Evidence of minor exhaust leak at waste gate dump
-Evidence of minor exhaust leak at v-band
-Hole burned in silicone coupler that was in contact with the turbo blanket (somewhat expected and planned on re-routing)
-turbo blanket itself is burned through and unraveling already (cheapest blanket money can buy lol)
-heat damage to wiring harness nearest to downpipe
-recirculation pipe on intake broken lose
Frankly I'm shocked it has been running as well as it has. I feel like I dodged a bullet. If it weren't for my wife's hypersensitive nose, I probably would have had a catastrophic failure. I feel like half of thsee problems stem from the muffler contacting the driveshaft. Imagine banging on your muffler with a hammer 300 times a minute... Might shake something loose. The rest of the issues are due to me running it hard for too long without finishing up the heat management stuff I had planned on doing all along.