I would pick 4.3s again. Every time.
The 5.7L is a brute and doesn't need the gearing that lower end Toyota's need. IMO, the reason to do 4.88s is for a super low rock crawling ratio...maybe.
I think it's easy to get drawn into the more is better, but for gearing, it's a balance. Gears don't make HP. Once at speed, so long as the right ratio is available to put the engine in the powerband, it'll do the deed, and excess RPM isn't good for efficiency. It's also little talked about but the factory torque converter lock-up logic is programmed for the certain ratio. Deviate too far, and IMO 4.88s are too far, and the lockup strategy will be compromised causing more heat in the torque converter and lost MPGs at the pump.
4.3s work so well returning gearing with 35s just a bit better than stock. Everything is as intended and shift points are on point.