There is an "adapter" plate for the A440F that bolts to the back of the block, then the auto can bolt to that. Is this the piece you are referring to? I'm assuming you are running the auto? In my 62 I have the stock auto bolted up with that, in my 55, I have an early "3 speed" bellhousing bolted to direct to the block with a SM420 behind it.
Sorry, I don't really understand the problem... maybe a picture would help.
Sorry, I don't really understand the problem... maybe a picture would help.