SteveH remarks above come closest to the situation here. Mr. T hot riveted your frame (like old army trucks) so that the frame could flex without "nuts & bolts" coming loose, and the fact that your frame cracks begin at a rivet hole shows the stress at those connecting points. This highly indicates stress cracks will want to continue at your "bolt" locations. I'm thinking now that you are committed to using nuts & bolts, they should be grade 8 or 12, and some how try to figure out how to totally lock the nuts to the bolts. Since you won't be able to get to all of the nuts to tack them to the bolt, possibly use all steel self locking nuts with "locktite" ????? BTW, nice soft suspension with a lot of travel will eliminate a lot of the frame flex.