I asked around here a couple years ago about this one. Would an HD swaybar up front help with body roll on the highway? I already disconnect mine off road, so there would be no harm to my off-road manners.
Nobody seemed to think it was a good idea.
but you also have a bunch of people who think that running without them is a good idea. I think the other problem is some people have a bias against one of the only sources of them. Slee might have a point, and they may require better bushings as well. Like anything, you make one part stronger, and the week point moves to the next weekest point.
I'll phrase it like this....
I would say it's a good idea, should yield better road manners, and since you're disconnecting off road will not effect off road performan. BUT (isn't there always a but) implementation of that good idea might require some additonal improvements to bushings and such. Or, you might not use your rig the same way as those with failures, and won't see the same failure.
Tulsa is tough on bushings, lots of heat here in the summer, dries stuff out pretty good.