Can't do that. When is everyone going to learn.
Same mother-in-law invited herself to my house (across state lines) to hand off an Easter Basket to my daughter. While it was certainly very kind of her to think of us, we made her stay outside the house and 6 feet away. I'm immune compromised, I'm not messing around with this. The only risk I'm taking is getting essentials - basically a once a week trip to the grocery store(s) to find the provisions we need. I'd send my wife but after the car break in and some of the horrible behavior I've seen in checkout lines and parking lots, I hesitate to send her into the circus my town has become. As of today the Governor mandated that EVERYONE outside wear a mask or face covering of some form.
That's been the hardest part for me, haven't seen my parents since this all started and my grandmother is staying with them and I can't visit but it is the right thing to do
Same here, it is breaking my mom's heart to not see the grandkids. We also missed the big family Easter dinner up in NJ on the family farm, which was tough on my grandmother, but she's quite literally the trifecta of risk factors - elderly (91 years old); immune compromised (on immunotheropy for cancer) and lung issues (cancer has moved to lungs).
Basically most of my immediate family is a risk factor so we're all just staying home - lots of family teleconferences:
Me - On Immunosupressents for Crohn's Disease.
Middle Brother - Wife is a healthcare worker (P.A.)
Youngest brother - Also Crohn's; plus wife is a healthcare worker (RN)
Parents - Dad has Waldenstroms Macroglobulinoma (type of blood cancer) so his white sells periodically crash making him super susceptible to literally anything
Grandmother - Lung Cancer, Elderly, immune compromised.
Then I have a cousin who lives in Staten Island and his wife is at "ground zero" on her med-school rotations dealing directly with Covid 19 patients.
Damn when you list it out - we are kind of a mess!
I've never been happier to live in the country with some space between my house and the neighbors'.