Many many years ago I had a 67 Chevy pickup with a 327. The exhaust was similar to what you have there, ramshorns manifolds and a crossover. On one side there was an added piece between the manifold and exhaust pipe. It had a heat riser flapper in it, and was about 1" thick, or a little more, about what it looks like you need there.
In the stock intake manifold there was a small passage that allowed exhaust to travel from one head to the other, and under the carb, to warm it up. . This heat riser was set up with a heat actuated spring that opened the flapper as the motor heated up.
There was a flat gasket between the added piece and the manifold. Then a doughnut gasket, like what you have, was what sealed between the block and the exhaust pipe. You might need longer studs to make something like that work though.
For the oil pump, you could go to a remote oil filter set up to get you past the cramped space between the engine block and exhaust pipe. This would allow you to place the oil filter where you would have easy access, either from above in the engine compartment, or below, wherever you have easy access.
Don