@GA Architect help me out with the order in which you did everything?
Fiberglass repair, seam sealer (let it cure for a couple months), and lastly paint?
Sounds as if you skipped the gel coat is that correct?
My roof repair process was helped that I took my hard top off at the beginning of February '16, and installed a bikini top for the Spring, Summer and Fall. So I was in no rush to get this done and back on my rig. Also, I did a ton of research about the roof repair process...What I did, is just one way of doing it, as there are many-many other ways of completing this process. I am not advocating that what I've done is the best way, but just the way I did it.
The old gutter caulk/sealant was pulling from the roof and lip, so I removed all of it as best I could. Then I cleaned the fiberglass in the gutter and around the rivets. All the rivets looked good and the gutter wasn't rusted, so minimal work on that part was needed. Once all the old caulk & grime were removed, I did one last cleaning with alcohol. I let it sit a few days, then cleaned again with alcohol. It sat again for a week, then I worked up the nerve to lay down the Dicor. After that, I put the roof up in a rack for a while. Thus, the Dicor had plenty of time to set.
About five months later, towards the end of Summer, I was at my local Toyota body shop due to having my daughters car repaired...(yep, won't go into that...)...and I asked if they had the paint codes for the old Toyota Land Cruisers. They said they could get any paint code I wanted, so I asked if they would paint fiberglass. They said if it was in good shape, it would not be a problem. I told them what I had and wanted painted, they said bring it in and they would see what they could do....A few days later, I brought the roof and a few bezels to them, they liked what they saw, and agreed to paint it. It is not perfect, but I'm very happy with the outcome.
Now I'm not 100% of the process of their work, but I do know they did prep the roof for the new paint and it is NOT a gel coat.
HTH