I went through two or three flex plates related to a less than perfect bellhousing adapter (what I believe is the cause).
Then I went to the NV4500 with the AA adapter to split case. That whole assembly has been a bit leaky, now looking to go to the adapter posted in the diesel section to a full time case (I prefer full time where we get snow on the roads as much of the year as we tend to in Calgary).
Anyway, I was bleeding money every time a flex plate went, it got old quick, not that the NV4500 and adapter were cheap.
Edit: I should say I much prefer the NV4500. It's not as quick or simple as an auto around the city, I like how it idles in different gears, much prefer gearing down over using the brakes in many circumstances, can tow-start it if needed vs. the auto. For the most part I've never missed the auto, though I do enjoy the simplicity of the wife's 4runner when I get in it in contrast.