I would bet they are giving you a standard answer, and it only applies if you have a windshield that doesn't use a gasket. In fact, their reply says it is for your situation- '...seal between rubber gasket and auto body'. Most modern windshields are glued directly to the body with urethane, with no gasket used. DON'T use urethane on your gasket. The 3M 8509 looks like the right product from your description and their email.Right now I am dealing with leaks and "know it all" installers that think they know how to deal with it, I live in Venezuela and when they see an instruction page in English they say "Oh no that's in their country, here is a different procedure"So far, 4 failed attempts at 2 different places.
So, I think I found an installer willing to do it the way FSM states it should be done, which I hope to do in a few weeks.
Now, what I researched for adhesives for this work, the Sikaflex 256HV is not butyl, is Uretane, the HV stands for High Viscosity but Sika doesn't manufacture it anymore but they still have Sikaflex 256. But, Dupont manufacrures Betaseal DOW U-418HV which, as you guessed it, HV is High Viscosity, so this one is the closest one to the specification.
3M has a Butyl substitute, the "Auto Bedding and Glazing Compound" Part Number 08509 that's supposed to keep flexible for years. I asked 3M if they recommend this product and they answered by email the following:
Wed, Oct 13, 3:52 PM (4 days ago)
to me
Hello Erick,
Thank you for contacting 3M, where we apply science to life.
In short, the product mentioned (PN 8509, 3M Auto Bedding and Glazing Compound) SHOULD NOT be used for the installation of the windshield glass itself. For this repair, you should refer to Toyota’s repair manual for this vehicle or any official statements made by Toyota as it refers to the products and procedures they call out for glass replacement.
3M PN 8509 is “Designed for creating seal between rubber windshield gasket and auto body” – so while it may have reason for use on the rubber weatherstrip (also to be confirmed by Toyota repair manuals and official statements), it should not be used for the installment of the glass windshield.
All my best,
Erin
Erin Suchara | Application Engineer
Automotive Aftermarket Division
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So far, it's very confusing, already bought the 3M product and thinking about buying the DOW U-418HV. The first one to make the sealing of the lip around the glass and the second one to glue the glass in the weatherstrip insert and have the best of both worlds but I think the DOW product is what approaches the best the Sikaflex 256HV wanted to share my thoughts about this subject and will tell you how it turns out once I have it installed.