Steelies as "poverty package"... That's awesome! I hadn't considered that, but like the balance it provides. Should help toward my 100 series zen. Steelies are the poverty yin and my luxury rooftop tent or fridge yang.
LOL I like that you are balancing your Chi
For me it's a preference thing, I dig steel wheels. Reminds me of the Camel Trophy trucks and old Land Rovers, Jeeps, Broncos...
Frankly after a few years trail riding I haven't done any real damage to any of my wheels. I have destroyed and damaged some tires. I think that the ratio of rim width to tire series/width is important. 31x10.5 tires on 8" wide rims got chewed up pretty bad, goose eggs on the sidewalls and popped beads. 33x11.5 tires and 33x10" tires on 7" rims have been very happy.
Unfortunately it's hard to find aftermarket rims that are less than 8" wide, steel or not. I was happy to go to OEM steel rims on my Jeep, I like the more narrow stance from backspacing, and fender protection.
Happy hunting on the Tundra wheels! I can see the attraction.