... I know I am high-jacking my own thread but I meant it to be a thread about how to avoid getting stuck in the middle of no where while you are alone. Expanding it to include how to get unstuck is a natural progression...
Coming back to the part of the discussion that still makes sense to me, I'd like to offer a few tidbits:
1. Disclaimers: the majority of my experience is in an ARB-locked K5 Blazer. You may say no wonder that thang needs lockers, what with 19th century carriage suspension design and all that. I offer that I've spotted 80s (perhaps more than my share...) through the very same obstacles, and more often than not, the 80 needed at least a locked rear in the same spots as that old K5. I've played a bit with our locked LX, but doubt that I'll be wheeling that one a lot in the future, if at all; same for our locked 80, mostly because I've started to look in a different direction altogether. In terms of terrain, I've been putzing around in dry desert conditions - the 37s on the K5 are a bit over a year old, and I don't think I've gotten them wet yet... But back to this 'avoid getting stuck' thing:
2. Using selectable lockers only
after you've gotten stuck can be quite a losing proposition, particularly on climbs, where loss of momentum and loss of traction can result in unfavorable vehicle positions. I'm a strong proponent of 'lock first, ask questions later' - as in look at the obstacle, read the available lines, and when in doubt, I lock at least the rear. Particularly so if there's loose material on the surface, gravel, loose rocks, sand, and the like. Then drive, ready to lock the front when needed.
3. Front lockers are awesome but are best used sparingly - saves wear on axle components, and permits easier steering. I find that often I don't need that help from the front locker for more than 5-10 feet, depending on the obstacle, of course. But for that short distance, that locked front can make all the difference. A locked rear end has the tendency to 'square' itself to the obstacle (perhaps related to wheel base and rear leaf suspension; I haven't noticed it as much with the LX, whereas the FJ40 does it with a vengeance

), which may or may not be desired. The little bit of extra grip from the locked front can help there quite a bit. By the way, I'm not doing front digs (at least not deliberately) - my truck is not set up for that, and it's too heavy and too big for those type of trails anyways. Again, as mentioned before, I lock the front when in doubt - if I don't need the front help, an open front is one click away. My truck is set up so I can actuate the front independent of the rear, but the places where this might help (front locked, rear open - e.g. at a ledge with a turn where I don't want the rear to push the truck straight...) are few and far in between.
4. In terms of lockers vs. winch, I'll say that I've used the lockers way more that I can count or remember over the last dozen years; the winch (a Ramsey 9.5) came into play maybe a dozen times. On a few of those occasions, the lockers didn't help, since I'd gotten myself hung up front and rear, and the tires that still were on the ground had not enough contact pressure to provide traction. Would I pick a winch over lockers - no, since I get a lot more use out of the lockers. Would I think about not having a winch on the truck - no, not after having one on the truck for 10 years. I see them as different tools that serve distinct purposes, i.e. I don't see lockers as 'recovery' equipment. I don't think I've used the winch in pre-emptive mode, unless you count letting the FJ40 down WipeOut Hill on the cable.
5. I'd venture to say that two of the more important tools to avoid getting stuck are that thing between the ears, and seat time. Knowing what your truck can - and can't - do is quite important when looking at an obstacle. But general trail awareness, and recognizing when you're getting tired and you're not paying enough attention are at least as important as tech specs. I've read that most skiing accidents happen in the afternoon, perhaps due to fatigue and lack of concentration; I'll say that similar dynamics are in play when it comes to long trail rides.