I will make you a bushing drive for the inner seal that you can keep.The oem style seals are fine. The special seals are OK but not strictly necessary if the trunion bodies are set-up correctly. The stock set-up hasn't leaked for many years and miles that tells me it was set correctly from the factory.
You probably won't need wheel bearings but the Koyo's are pretty inexpensive and no big deal to change. You can order Koyo WB's from Kurt with your kit. You might want to order a 54mm socket from Kurt as well I would get the 3/8 drive one unless he only has 1/2 drive.They are about $21.00. I can bring mine if you like.
We are flying back then driving back to Alberta in May sometime.
As for the fish scale again not really necessary, you can get it very close by feel. The trunions just need a little preload so the housing doesn't move up or down along the king pin inclination.
The other way to go on filters is to use Denso which is a Toyota affiliate company. The filter number is 150-1004. I think there is a bit of over thinking in the whole filter game.

If Fram was so bad there would be millions on engines lying on the side of the road dead from poor filtration.
If you scour E-bay I bet you could find some of the large Toyota filters for a competitive price.
See you soon.
Thanks jb