I agree, keep it simple. I've been using the transfer ECU from George Scolaro in conjunction with a Sub tank OEM pushbutton from Slee. This is a very clean solution for transferring the fuel from the aux to the main using a simple pump (low press/high volume) from your typical car parts place. Be sure to get a pump that has a built in check valve and you're set.
This ECU gets turned on by a single pushbutton of the OEM transfer switch, then the indicator light turns on (on the switch) while the pump is pumping. Pump is shut off automatically when the aux tank sends out the Empty signal to the ECU. Done.
I could've mucked with adding the aux tank sending unit to the main fuel tank gauge in the instrument cluster but just wasn't worth it IMHO for a 16g tank. If I had a 25g tank, I think it become more important.
I don't see any reason to buy any ancillary tank stuff for the oem Aux tank solution from OZ. The info outlined above is a robust solution that I've been running for eight years w/o a single hiccup. PM George if you want to inquire about the ECU. He posted on this thread somewhere above mine.
Happy Friday to all. I'm sitting in the airport, waiting to catch a plane home