Mike,
The "empty" signal from any OEM tanks usually comes on with few gallons left in the tank. I mean, that's our empty signal works, right? So, you won't have to worry about running the tank dry if you go the ECU route. However, if you do the manual route, I think you'll run it dry - simply because you'll be doing something like driving, wheeling, spotting, etc while the fuel is transferring.
OK I see how that works. What I wonder is if we get a pump different than the OEM, do they typically have this circuitry? Makes sense, because everything's fuel injected these days and you need that signal as part of the "make good" for it?
My ECU is connected to the IGN power source so the pump doesn't run with key off. However, you can easily power it constant HOT I suppose. I didn't encounter any occasion where I wished the system ran with key off but there's always an exception to everything I guess.
Yeah, I prefer key-on power. I spend a lot of time in the backcountry, have to run a CPAP machine all night and conserving battery power is important. I don't want to be pumping gas somehow when I need to be pumping air...
IIRC, the fuel path is like this: subtank outlet to pump to main tank vent line. Usually, when the main tank is half full, I'd turn on the transfer process and let it do its thing. But, if I had a 25g sub tank, then I'd have to be real careful when to transfer the fuel. It wouldn't be too much effort to purchase a typical dual tank solenoid valve from NAPA that has two feed/two vent/return lines. With a little work with a relay, you could get a super trick system that draws/returns from the same tank AND the fuel gauge shows the status of the "current" tank. Perhaps a trip to the junk yard to see what the domestic trucks with dual fuel tanks are doing these days. Again, if you want to get super trick and complicate things. I may go this route if a 25g subtank jumps into the mix, who knows. I like complicated wiring.
I don't like complicated wiring, so if I go the opposite direction you're inclined to, I should be safe, right?

I am beginning to size this up and you hit on something that was becoming more clear to me as I re-digested these subtank threads. Yep, it's kind of hard to just pump the 25 gallon (or bigger) subtank into a 25 gallon main tank. With the 13 gallon subtank, manual control might work without issues so long as a way can be figured to avoid running the pump dry. For the bigger ones, you kind of need the smarts of the ECU to avoid problems.
I see the OEM control system and George's adaption of it as having two basic functions to avoid problems. First, it senses whether the main tank is full. Second, it senses whether the subtank is empty. If either condition occurs, it shuts down the transfer. This works admirably to simply control a transfer.
I presume that there is no issue with the shutdwon signal and George's ECU (or GECU for short) for the main tank in any case. We've all got what's needed already installed in the tank from the factory. It's merely a matter of wiring it to the GECU.
The subtank is where it gets iffy. Can the aftermarket in-tank pumps or senders give us the signals that the GECU needs? if so, probably easiest and cheapest. If not, then there's Toyota senders. I saw one for the 13 g subtank adapted for a deeper subtank. I'd much prefer a bolt-in solution, just not sure about this yet.
As far straps, this is how the main tank is installed into our 80's and so far it's holding on fairly well I think. What ever you do, you'll need to make sure that the tank moves with the body IMHO.
Yeah, not too worried about straps, just noticed how they used brackets for the subtank. I think which works depends on how close the tank fits to the frame and/or x-members. Haven't had a chance yet to go back through the tanks.
In the end, I think breaking the control system part from the tank part in terms of thinking about things helps me. The part about getting aftermarket non-Toyota tanks to work may have some appeal to those who already have all the other goodies in place with the small subtank, but want to upgrade to something bigger. I'll work more on that in the next day or two.
As for the rest, I have a pretty good handle on what needs done now with the exception of getting the sender and signals from a non-OEM subtank to work.
I did find a pump # that Cruiserdrew came up with that would work from the transfer pump, NAPA Part # P74019 (Hecho in USA!) at about $50. Pic here:
https://forum.ih8mud.com/80-series-tech/150756-oem-sub-tank-aux-fuel-tank-setups-faq-3.html
Not sure about something to replace the OEM solenoid valve yet, but that and the switches, gauging, etc can probably be found in US-market aux tank supplies as you indicate.
Gotta hit the sack for now.