It’s like there’s something in the water - or maybe generations of “gentle parenting” or kids being raised by daycares. My daughter is 5, kindergartener, with two working parents, and I will say she is a MONSTER challenge behaviorally - getting her to do anything you need her to do or try anything new is like pulling teeth. Manners and respect need work too, but we’re trying.
I see it at work as well - I’m in sales - it’s a demanding job that requires a lot of self-starting and follow through. It has always been high-turnover, I’m a veteran, in my 8th year, at this point, but there is NOBODY behind me - everyone we hire bails within in a year, or limps along on their base pay for as long as they can until they get fired for underperformance…
I hear this - we bought a house with some land in a rural (poor) area with crappy schools as a starter house because it’s what we could afford at 30. Now, even though it’s worth almost twice what we paid, and we are packed to the gills with 2 kids in it - we’re staying - the low interest rate and mortgage are game changers - we would literally have to pay double or triple to move anywhere else. Granted, we had to put the kids in private school with the difference so we’re not as flush as I wish we were!
I never got a new car growing up - I shared my dad’s 1989 Plymouth Colt Wagon (in 2004) and then “upgraded” to a hand-me-down 1994 Buick Century (in 2008). I always enjoyed fixing them and had a fascination with anything mechanical and the look and style of classic cars. I always knew I’d get one eventually. Both my younger brothers (1989, 1991) can barely change their own oil, and have no interest in old beaters. Bought brand new F150’s with tech packages, leather interiors, and the smallest possible engines to commute to their office jobs in

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Where there’s a will, there’s a way! I bought my FJ40 when I still lived with my parents, and dragged it to my girlfriend’s townhouse and hid it in her garage (I couldn’t tell my parents, I was supposed to be saving for a house)

. Then, when she and I moved in together at a house with no garage, the 40 got moved to a family friends unused garage, then, into another friend’s pole barn. When we got married and bought a house 5 years later it finally got a space in its own garage.
I got my daughter fixated (accidentally) on air-cooled beetles. I’m hoping that sticks around until she’s 13 or so and we can build her one as a first car.
Same, I have the FJ40 but I’m waiting for a bargain basement Triumph GT6.