One last try.
Provided the leak down test was done PROPERLY, a 7 psi drop is less than 5%. If those drops were consistant for all cylinders they represent very good numbers.
As has already been asked, it appears no one at Toyota paid any attention to where the leak down air was coming out. Breather tube, intake, exhaust OR radiator .... that's important stuff to know. Unrelated to what is wrong with your truck, I would not go back to that dealer.
Let's get right to it .... that much coolant is NOT going into your oil. That leaves 3 places for it to go:
1. Transmission via tranny cooler. Toyota says tranny fluid is clean. Now you're down to 2 choices.
2. An external physical leak (heater hose, heater core, radiator leak, water pump, cracked block, etc. etc.)
3. Into the combustion chamber (via head gasket, cracked head, or cracked cylinder wall). That would mean all your coolant is being changed to steam and is coming out the tailpipe. Due to high pressures in the cylinder, if this is the issue hydrocarbons WILL be in the coolant. If there are no HC's in the coolant the leak is EXTERNAL.
John ... have you spent any significant time under your rig looking for the leak? Since you've already poured a load of dye into the cooling system this would be a heck of a time to climb under the truck with your UV light and look for what my gut tells me is the real culprit.