I've been meaning to come back to this thread!
So I went to COTR in October, waaaaaaah waaaaaah sound and all. Had an absolute blast. Blew my front diff, so hadn't been driving the truck much. But, can confirm my waaaaah sound was still present without the front diff spinning at all (no drive shaft, no hub flanges) on the drive back.
I put the rear up in the air, and with the tires spinning at 50mph, there was a weird rhythmic tapping sound you could hear with a stethoscope, and even without the stethoscope, the rear diff sounded *rough*. Sorta sounded like some rocks bouncing around in there. Again, when I changed the diff fluid a 1k miles ago when rebuilding the truck, the rear magnet had a lot of smoo on it - significantly more than usual. No chunks of teeth, just a whole bunch of paste.
Fast forward to now. I just finished rebuilding two 'new' diffs with ARB lockers, new bearings, and used 4.30 gears. Swapped them in over Christmas, and have done a couple drives since.
'Waaaaaaah.... Waaaaaaah' sound (I think) is gone, but haven't done much highway driving during break in. Hoping that we've solved this one though. If it's not solved, then it must be the T-case. I have a spare one of those too now, so if that's the case I can swap.
However... The 'ear pressure' thing is still definitely around. Not nearly as bad as it was when I started this thread, but still there at lower speeds/back roads. I'm highly suspicious of my AHC at this point - despite ALL suspension bushings being new OEM (front/rear upper and lower control arms, and upper/lower AHC 'shock' bushings), AHC globes and fluid being new, and neutral pressures being correct, the ride over small bumps/expansion joints/sealer joints in the road is TERRIBLE. Let me repeat that. IT IS TERRIBLE.
My 2003 Sequoia with a somewhat sporty Eibach suspension and ALL polyurethane bushings in the front rides SO MUCH BETTER. I know I'm shouting here, but I'm just trying to communicate how rough it is.
Big bumps/dips are absorbed super nice, but all the little stuff feels as if I'm riding on concrete (have I mentioned how bad it is?). I *believe* the overly stiff AHC is exciting resonance in the cabin (imagine hitting a drum with a stick) that's causing this problem. It's really bad driving down my gravel driveway (very bumpy), paved roads seem to vary, so I definitely think it's suspension related.
This is something I've noticed this entire time, but I've been focused on the higher speed highway type driving. There's a number of threads dating back a decade on this exact AHC problem with no resolution, so I've got my work cutout for myself to figure it out. We've currently got a ton of snow on the ground here in Indiana, so I need to undercoat the vehicle before I start driving again.
Thanks for following up!