Ok, I get you on the “one at a time” thing, though I’m not sure I’d do that with the longest arm in the back.
Back to needing to have the weight of the vehicle on them to avoid damaging them, I still don’t see that. I can get behind wanting things to settle in before tightening, like how the head is torqued down in sequence at slightly higher torque settings, but I still haven’t seen a rational as to how that helps with bushings. They have a steel inner sleeve that is tight between the bracket. The metal sleeve of the bushing is either rotating on the bolt, or it is flexing (rotationally) if that bolt is tightened hard enough clamping the bracket onto the bushing insert.
Perhaps overtightening it causes bushings to wear more as the inner sleeve can’t rotate as its clamped in place and that isn’t the design, or maybe it is.
Perhaps we should be thinking about getting the sleeve in the bushings drilled out a hair, and using a slightly larger bolt, which is drilled with a grease fitting. You’d have to double but the bolt to prevent it from loosening up. The lower control arms have thicker material at front and back, and are thinner at top and bottom for twisting forces to rotate easier (I believe) but will absorb forces of compression (braking or acceleration). If the sleeve of the bushing is clamped tightly, the twisting forced during axle articulation put the forces on the bushings differently as they are twisted and bent at the same time.
Just thinking out loud here.