Here is something I did wrong on my swap and Ive been meaning to fix it... and it kinda just popped up to remind me this weekend. You really need to wire in a relay in between your starter wire and your neutral safety switch on your trans wiring. The Painless standalone harness instructions are very vague on this and make it seem like you need to run the "TO STARTER SOL" wire to the small post on your starter, but you need to add a relay to make it work. If you just run this yellow wire straight to your starter or you run the purple wire to key on power and not start power... you can crank the truck while in gear because its bypassing the neutral safety switch.
Why do I know this? Well my daughter plays in my truck a lot and I guess i left it in gear after she was messing around in there and I went to crank it and got to test out the strength of my
@TRAIL TAILOR bumper.
My brights were on, left turn signal was on, and my truck was in drive. The recovery point on the bumper drove straight into my welding table and it absorbed pretty much all of the impact. The wall behind the table is concrete for like 4 feet before its wood and drywall and stuff.
Ok... So how to fix this? (this is for Gen3 motors with 4l6x trans btw, for manual trans see diagram below)
The yellow wire for "TO STARTER SOL" would go on the 85 coil side of a relay, 86 would be grounded, 30 is constant fused (40amps) from the battery, and 87 goes to the small post on the starter solenoid. Make sure you get a relay that can handle the load. Purple/white should be tied into your ignition to only get power while cranking the vehicle. NOT a pink ignition wire thats energized when the key is in the on position. You have to use a relay for this or youll fry out your PNP switch. That switch isnt made to run up to 40 amps through it.
Or just dont let your daughter play in your car, but i refuse that option.
Edit,
adding the ewds from the GM diagrams for Back up light and the neutral safety and starter relay. Just copy this stuff on your swap
NSS (ive highlighted the Automatic trans side, but manual trans side is on the right):
Backup lights