Will heat help at all?
Unlikely. Threads on the bolts are probably rusted/corroded to some degree, basically causing a corrosion weld.
'Break Away' torque can be hundreds of ft. lbs to get the bolts moving/broken away. You'll literally hear a cracking sound when they break loose.
3/4" breaker bar won't flex on you like a 1/2" one will and also won't break possibly causing you injury. But that doesn't mean you might not still need a cheater pipe (at first). Finding a good place to put your feet against the frame/tire/whatever is key to getting enough pressure on the bar as you have already discovered.
Best of luck and let us know if you prevail.