sschaefer3 said:
I am truly sorry some of you had such a bad time. I did the best I could and I will take note of the comments and keep them in mind down the road.
I will not attend or participate in any event or gathering having anything to do with the Copper State Cruisers.
I'm moving on and hopefully the Copper State Cruisers can as well.
That was without a doubt the worst run I have been on in over 6 years of very active wheeling. You guys are not alone in your feelings, I feel the exact same way, your club is not for me and I am very sorry I was there, it will not happen again.
Steve, I hope you reconsider, but if big group club wheeling isn't your thing I understand. I too wheeled for years with a few buddies that I was comfortable with, we would run across club traffic jams on the trail and wonder why people would want to get out of town and sit in a traffic jam on the trail? We tried the club wheeling thing a few times and found it tedious and boring.
Maybe it has to do with age, but now it one of my favorite types of wheeling. It's different than other types of wheeling and requires a different mind set. The mind set that I find to work the best is the one that I use when I'm in the Caribbean and Moma says "today we are going boutique shopping"!

I could get butt hurt and make everybody miserable, or start with a different perspective, like I could be at the shop sweating over someone's impact wrench, so let's find a way to make this fun. With that more laid back perspective I saw that cool fort and meet that dude that runs the micro brew, that I would have never seen if I spent yet another day diving.
For a club run to be fun it takes a different mind set. On the morning of a "normal" run the goal may be something like I'm going to drive my junk into that waterfall until I make it up or run out of spares! For a club run my goal is, I'm going to hit the trail with a bunch of buddies, new and old and have a good time. Are we going to put 60 miles of dirt road behind us to make it to Broken Dog Well like on that expedition run, not likely. The socialization takes priority over the wheeling, time spent BS'in and telling lies with buddies just adds to the fun, like wasting time at the bar. If you spend any time with this group I think you will agree that we have some world class BSers!
We still get some wheeling in and someone (usually me) puts their junk in a spot where it probably shouldn't be or gets us lost and catches grief about it forever. So I'm with Shotts on this one, newbies, heeps, rovers, (they better have thick skin with this group!) under prepared trucks, etc. bring them on! Could more efficient wheeling get done without the "guys in the back" (I prefer to call them buddies!) absolutely. So we had to spot one buddy 17 times, who cares! We didn't make it to the last waterfall, half of the group took the bypasses, again who cares. Is it better that other types of wheeling, who cares! It's not a competition it's about a bunch of buddies hitting the trail and working together to have a good time.
So put on your favorite laid back music, I like some Buffet, pull up a chair and listen to Just John's latest yarn, skip some stones in the creek and have a good time, it's always better than work and life is too short to debate what type of wheelin is better! If it's not for you, that's cool too, we will still give you the thumbs up as you blaze past us on your way to that last waterfall!
