This may come as a surprise from a guy who has loved 35’s (they are still on my truck as I type this)...
But In all candor...it’s been a compromise to fit 35s.
Despite “successfully” running them, and putting them to full use (I mean running HARD in the desert, plus Moab, Breckenridge, Baja and more) ...the KDSS relocation bracket really strains a number of items including bending the link on the passenger side.
So....despite loving the float on sand, massive footprint aired way down, and excellent overall performance... This 35 runner (myself) will be dropping to a slightly shorter, inch narrower 285/75/17 soon, and removing the KDSS relo bracket. I’ll be doing that at the same time that I replace the bent link, and install skids that I elected to NOT have trimmed to accommodate the relocation bracket’s placement of the sway bar. In other words...I’m committed to no longer running the and that means that in the short term...35’s will soon be gone.
The other factor I’d like to put an end to is... its not great having to move 35’s forward using a weird “pivot” (for lack of a better term) of the lower control arms...then using the uppers to come up with a compromised result in alignment. It works...tracks well...and feels good. But the key word is still compromise.
I love my larger tires, but damage happens even if you solve major rubbing issues.
Back to your Q tho—
Do I think you could get a similar result with the combo you mention? Yes. Or pretty close to it. It runs nicely and performs well. But...unless I can come up with another approach—maybe some future option of sway bar...maybe Tundra front...or...—I would only recommend 35’s & relo if you are prepared to accept some pretty significant compromises.
Even Christo Slee (who came up with the relo) will tell you similar information, and is known to openly talk guys out of 35’s.