I have been where you are...
You are on the right track.
We all here feel your pain.
This is why we are all here.
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GW Nugget's Family Haulin Lexi450 build....
You will find in time that the stock coils are not strong enough to do the job. You will be bouncing around like a horse & buggy. You will also find you won't have enough up travel in the shock if you run the longer shocks. This is why you are stuck with a stockish length shock if you want a stockish lift.
Sucks huh? If only Toyota would of made that shock tower one inch taller when they made these $50,000 dollar luxury SUV's.
So this is where we are all at.
This is why the Slinky & ICON' are here.
If you want to run the longer shocks you will need to have at least a 20" free height coil. To do that traditionally you would need a 850J to stay retained.
This is your basic 4 choices... which is 2 more choices than last month.
Three are dual rate options.
1) OME stock height springs +25mm spring spacers up front with L shocks = 1.5" lift.
2) 50, 70 or 75mm Slinky coils w/ 2.5 or CDC resi shocks = 2", 2.75" or 3" lift.
3) ICON Stage 1, 2 or 3 =3" lift.
4) Traditional singe rate stiff OME 850J/863 & Ls = 3.5" lift.