Cross Member
So we did things a little differently and are super curious about other people's thoughts. Of course, there are many ways to do this and if you have fab skills I would suggest grinding off the plates and relocating them and welding capture nuts into the holes on the frame like other guys have done.
This step is somewhat open ended so feel free to do what you want, but this is what I did.
First, I got 8 inch long bolts with 6 washers and a lock nut. I BELIEVE it is 8 inches. We measured the height of the frame and found a bolt that worked. Also, make sure to get the highest strength bolt you can find. You will need 4 sets of these seen below.
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I then also bought 2 M10 x 1.25 bolts which are LONGER than the stock cross member bolts.
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I then drilled through the capture nut holes through the top of the frame. This will require quite a long drill bit!! Then you can bolt up the outer most holes on the cross member to the frame using the 8" bolts.
Then I measured the location of the REAR nut on the bracket (which is still in the auto position!) with respect to the cross member when it was bolted to the frame. It almost lies right in the middle of the hole already in the manual cross member. I then took my M10 x 1.25 and threaded it into the rear nut on the bracket.
This is what it looks like:
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I also bought a manual transmission mount. Please note it is a DIFFERENT size from the auto. However, the difference is very small. The auto mount is 2mm SMALLER than the manual mount. I'm assuming you want to use the correct one so that your transfer case flange angles are correct.
In the picture below, the auto mount is on the right.
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12371-61050 Manual transmission mount
Bolt up the mount to the cross member and bolt them up to the transmission according to the FSM using the left over bolts from when you took the old mount off the auto. They are the same for the manual.