A trick we used to use on Jeeps was to take a couple of the bellhousing bolts at say 10 and 2 o'clock and grind the heads off, put some flats on them so you can get them back out, lube them well, and then put them in before we slid the tranny forward. Essentially using them as dowels. This gives you something to index the bellhousing on that can take some of the the weight and give you a pivot point. It also gives you points that are a lot easier for your helper to see from the access cover when you are sliding the tranny forward. Obviously, after you get it in and put the rest of the bolts in, you need to take out the dowels and put in good bolts.
At one point we were having to make a custom throwout bearing for a CJ5->SM420. We R&R'ed the transmission 5 times one afternoon with a test drive between each one. We had it down to about 45 minutes to take it out and put it back in, and that included welding and grinding on the throwout bearing. The dowel trick took it from a three hour job to a 45 minute job. I still have those two 7/16" fine thread, headless bolts in the top drawer of my tool box.
At one point we were having to make a custom throwout bearing for a CJ5->SM420. We R&R'ed the transmission 5 times one afternoon with a test drive between each one. We had it down to about 45 minutes to take it out and put it back in, and that included welding and grinding on the throwout bearing. The dowel trick took it from a three hour job to a 45 minute job. I still have those two 7/16" fine thread, headless bolts in the top drawer of my tool box.