Vibration win today, mostly.. I was able to find a driveshaft shop that was open on a Saturday, ran my old OEM driveshaft with the Matsuba u-joints purchased from FJParts over to California Driveline so that Nacho could wave his magic wand over it and make it all better.
I installed one of them with the zerk fitting pointing the wrong way, so he fixed that and re-balanced the shaft. The runout on it was pretty bad, apparently, which evidently is normal and fixable. He was able to balance this and gave it a lick of paint all in the span of a few hours on a Saturday. Here's the sign above the door, they are in Rancho Cucamonga which is a haul but fortunately I had the time today. They do everything from normal car driveshafts to the big honkin' shafts from semis. There was one on the floor where the u-joint was at least 8" across, just huge.
I'd say that about 95% of the vibration is gone on a short test run down the freewayy. He did say that it's possible the slip yoke splines are worn, right where it sits installed. He balanced it fine and fixed the runout, however. This may get worse over time, but if it does, I know what to do next.
As for the Tom Wood shaft...he didn't have many good things to say about them. I'm glad I didn't bring that to him to fix, as he said he wouldn't have touched it. Which sounds about right for a driveshaft shop guy who makes his living building custom driveshafts, though he did say they use Chinesium parts and that the Matsuba joints are more robust. I think in my case I may have gotten a dud, will get in touch with them and see what happens since it's been a while.
For now, though, it's hot and I've done enough driving around southern CA for the weekend. I'm more relieved than anything that it's pretty much figured out. Hope to stay close today and tomorrow with more to come next week, particularly on the 40.