First, let's lock in the date of Saturday 12/15 if that works for folks. This gets to be a super busy time of year and the sooner we can lock in a date, the better.
I'm fine with either option (restaurant or Shawn's), but my preference would be to go to Shawn and Jill's place. I was standing there when they offered, so I'm comfortable that they're OK with that option.
I appreciate Ash's efforts and research to figure out the restaurant option and suggest something different for us. However, the main idea for my preference of someone's house is just more flexibility to meet and chat with everyone. In a restaurant setting, you are generally only able to talk to the few people sitting very close. Also, chances are we would be locked in to the time period specified (5 - 7 PM), since there would likely be another group after us for their own Christmas party. And in the middle of December, standing outside to chat with those you missed during the gathering probably is not that realistic.
I'm also OK with Rudy's food, if we decide to have the gathering at Shawn & Jill's. I love their food and look forward to it this time of year.
So there's my two cents. If the majority of folks prefer the restaurant option, that's fine as well. Ellen and I plan to attend either way. But it sounds like Ash needs a quick commitment one way or the other, so get your votes in soon if you want to voice your opinion.
Happy Thanksgiving!