It is really tough to find a valley plate leak without removing the intake. A borescope only goes so far in tight spaces.
You could have your oil tested to eliminate HG as a culprit.
Oil analysis wouldn't eliminate the HG completely. A small HG coolant leak to the combustion chamber may not be detectable via oil analysis as any evidence of this occurring may be burned up and blown out the exhaust.
+1 on buying a borescope. Not only to check for the valley plate. But, also to pull the plugs and borescope each cylinder looking for a piston(s) that look steam cleaned and/or shinier compared to the others. It's possible you could have both problems.
Or just take it to any halfway decent mechanic and pay the hour of labor for them to diagnose. These ridiculous 1UR / 3UR valley plate leaks are so common any mechanic who sees a fair share of Toyota/Lexus will know exactly where to look.