I currently have a 05 V8 4Runner(230k) and loved it since I got it. Wife liked mine so much I got her an 08 V8 Runner(180k). Both of us constantly get complements on how nice both are, then we tell them the age and mileage and their expressions are great.
Both 4Runners got about 1-2k to baseline after purchase, most done by a friend with a shop (I was time limited). Replaced Xreas on mine about 2 years later. I got 10k in mine purchase/parts/some labor. Hers is about 12k total, my mk4 Jetta/mk5 GLI set me back more and we’re worth less in the same amount of time. Plus I couldn’t drive through blizzards
Now I’ve been looking to replace it with an 100 LC/LX for more room… well I test drove one and it blew me away how much ‘nicer’ they actually are. Even after some of the worse case posts about being $$$ I believe you get what you pay for and will continue my hunt for a Hundy!
P.S. I don’t believe Dodge/Chevy/Ford are even close to the quality or reliability vs Toyota. I have an uncle that has put 3 engines in a 2500 and another 2 in a different 2500, both under 130K…. They also love their new jeeps that are always getting fixed

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And yes we have to replace rubber parts, hoses, cv boots, etc, it’s just amazing seeing how long some of you mudders are taking these rigs, and with regular (not OCD) maintenance.