I think we agree on more than you might think. But the above quote is what I take issue with. I like to run harder trails with my 35's and still have to pick my line carefully. Now I totally get that you threw in the 'most of the time' equalizer, but again you are speculating since you haven't owned 35's. Everyone I've met who upsized to 35's loved it. Perhaps try a set and report back?
Remember back when I said the truck won't fit the garage?
It still won't.
I also plan on trailering most of our gear, since we sleep in the truck. Assuming we had a bigger garage to put the truck in, now I'm looking at a bill for an unobtanium supercharger, an engine conversion, whatever on 35s.
Does lack of experience make one incapable of offering a useful opinion about 35s? it might...if it made things more difficult. I'd have no way to judge or compare to "more difficult." Since we all agree it would be easier, I don't think easy is going to stymie me at all. There's nothing mystical about easier.
I'm certain I took a performance hit going to 33s, because they went onto steel wheels when I bought them. But I was surprised at how imperceptible it was. At 10,000' that might be a different matter. But I've been on all these trails in a 55, so I can live with slow.
As I also observed earlier, my technique doesn't tolerate abusing the equipment or wheelspin. In fact, to be successful in running trails on smaller tires, you need to avoid that sort of careless driving entirely. Having the auto worries me on that score -- a lot more than tire size or lack of lockers. Which points out once again, this argument really isn't about a single number settling things. It also depends on many other factors, only a few of which involve equipment.
Yes, drivers of equal experience will find that the one on the larger tires can generally go farther, easier on trails that REQUIRE the need for that equipment. Those trails have been few and far between in Colorado IME. I do know where to find them. Those that want to run them need to be equipped to handle them. Not once have I argued that larger tires don't have merit. They do, but it doesn't matter until the trails exceed the capabilities of lesser tires. Hang around awhile at the summit and you'll see all kinds of rigs show up. In my case, a Subaru atop Mosquito Pass was the most surprising. But I've seen a Chevette at the Alpine Tunnel (makes sense, it's a RR grade, even though rough.) Then there was the (hopefully) rental Olds 4-door on Tincup Pass. Yep, those dudes were out of it entirely, bashing that sucker bad. You meet all kinds on the trail.
That's why to me a 2" difference in tire size means little. Most of the time, my experience adds inches to my effective tire diameter. That's also why I noted that 4" would be a bigger difference, once that has factors that skill alone can't overcome. I'm not marking that up against anyone here. I'm sure most of us are skilled drivers and if your tires are bigger, you might get farther on those few trails where that difference counts. But mostly it doesn't matter. A LandCruiser on 33s, heck even 31s, will beat just about any other vehicles encountered. I'm not in competition with all those other brands, and even less with fellow LC fans. But I also see no need to join in the chorus that you're not really living until you're rolling on 35s or bigger.
Which reminds of another reason 33s sound pretty good for my needs. The taller the tire, the tippier the truck. If there's any thing that limits things in my mind in getting over any trail, it's side angles. I know what I'm comfortable with, but passengers can be somewhat more fearful. Once the shiny side is no longer UP, then you've got problems, no mater how tall your rubber is.