Per the user manual when towing ECT should be in Power and the transmission set to S4 (for the 6 speed).If it was me first thing I would look at is the air filter. If it is clogged with dust, that would do it.
The other thing is if the ECT switch is on you get worst mpg.
Never follow a big rig up close to draft it, you may get better mileage but the down time replacing a windshield or rock chips in the paint doesn't make it worth it in IMHO.
I would watch at what RPM it shifts nearest the speed you want to travel. When the engine is cruising it gets the best mileage, meaning not revving too high and not lugging it.
I run >3k rpms cruising at 60mph and get 8-9 mpg.