For fun I stopped for fuel and got on a CAT scale this weekend on my way out to the local state park. Fully loaded cruiser (2 adults (300#), 3 kids (240#), 1 big dog (75#), full cooler )75#?), 2 kayaks on the roof (70#) and mostly loaded trailer (normal gear, propane, battery, 2 bikes in the front of the trailer and 3 in the rear). Truck currently has a Gamiviti roof rack, Trail Tailor front bumper with Warn winch, White Knuckle sliders, 34" Nitto tires, and easily 50# of recovery gear in a bag in the trunk. I'm running E-load tires at 45 psi when towing.
Weigh #1:
Front Axle: 3500
Rear Axle: 4960
Truck weight: 8,460 (with WD hitch)
Trailer Axles: 5140
Total weight: 13,600
Weigh #2:
Front Axle: 3700
Rear Axle: 3840
Truck weight: 7540
Trailer Axles: 0 (trailer was not connected)
Total weight: 7540
Implied trailer weight is 6060# (13600 - 3840 - 3700).
I didn't weigh my tongue this time or weigh the rig without the WD bars, but I'm guessing my TW was ~920# (4960 - 3940 - (3700-3500) ), which is just a hair over 15%. FWIW I did weight my tongue last spring and was at~770#, but I've since swapped the coil spring mattress up front with a heavier memory foam one, added 2 glass solar panels up top, and was carrying 2 bikes up front, so that number feels about right.
As a side note I got on a scale last August on my way back from the LCDC and our summer road trip. No bikes, probably a bit less propane, less food/beer, no kayaks, and no dog, but otherwise reasonably similar setup. Front axle was 3460, rear was 4620, trailer was 5200, for a total of 13,280 at the time.
I'm currently looking at ways to shift some TW back in the trailer behind the axles to try and remove a few hundred pounds from the rear axle. It's a tricky balancing act because I could put my cooler and tools in the trailer and shift 150-200# off the rear axle of the truck *plus* getting it behind the trailer axle will reduce the TW slightly. However the trailer has a 6000# GWVR and I'm already 60# over, so I need to balance an overweight cruiser with an overweight TT - and I trust the cruiser to handle the excess weight better than a TT. First thing I'm going to try is to re-mount the spare from under the tongue to behind the rear axle to just shift weight, but I don't see that moving more than 25-30# off the tongue. I'm open to other ideas if anyone has any.
The Toyota factory max #s BTW are:
Front: 3595
Rear: 4300
GVWR: 7385 (note that's ~500# less than max front + max rear)
GCWR: 14,400 (includes trailer up to 8100#)
FYI I currently have the Tough Dog 45mm adjustables with 240#/in rear coils (vs 170#/in stock) but stock 500# in the front. I did some research a while back regarding the GVM upgrades, which ups the front axle to 3960 and the rear to 4400# (8360# total) via 675# front coils and 320# rear, for comparison.