they think it's going to take 1 1/4 hours per end to tap? the only way that operation could take that is if they are cutting the threads with a thread cutter not a tap.* While the tap is not cheap ($133-$174 at Grainger), they may be willing to use your quality tap and run it in their lathe. If you ask them, do not bring them a Harbor Freight tap - yeah, I know they're cheap but how cheap will it be when you have to bring them another, more expensive tap after they blew up the first one on their lathe?
*the operation is: clean pipe, cut, reset, cut, reset, cut. Add to that time one tool sharpen per pipe... I still think it's a high estimate, but there it is. You'll have to judge this for yourself, it may also be the shop saying "no" without saying "no" because their opinion on how you should do this is different then yours.... in that case, there's a bunch of shops around, find one that doesn't have a cold breeze blowing up their skirt. In honesty, the shop I've settled on would simply buy the tap so that I keep coming back and charge 15 or so minutes a hole.