Out of curiosity, do you get any vibration/resonance when you're at a stop, idling in gear? I do. Goes away as soon as I drop it in neutral...
I did a while back, but it has slowly gotten better as I've installed more and more new rubber. The engine/trans mounts helped a bunch. But the front sus and rear sus bushing change got rid of even more. I still haven't gone through all vacuum hoses to see if I can get the idle speed up a touch.
I'd say it is pretty good right now, but yes it is even better when I put it in neutral.