I know you've gotten a lot of feedback and are learning but this is where you should focus in my opinion. Get the bearings tight and then evaluate any further issues from there. Loose wheel bearings are actually pretty common on these in part because the procedure for setting preload in the factory service manual isn't very good and can lead to issues.
If you don't know the history of the rig and it's likely that the front axle hasn't been serviced in a while then you should start planning for a full service. This is a regular maintenance item and I think it's a great DIY project for someone who knows the basics like how to change oil and a tire, etc.. It's messy and will take you all day, or two days, the first time but even as a beginner you may do a better job than a hired wrench if you pay attention to detail as you proceed. I personally don't like to hire work like this out because I prefer to know that every fastener was torqued properly and everything replaced that needed it, etc. You can't be certain of quality work from a lot of shops/wrenches out there.
Once the wheel bearings are tight you may still have issues to deal with. You can get an IR thermometer to monitor hub temps on all 4 wheels and you may see a hub run warmer than the others if it has bad bearings. Simply spinning the wheel while it's in the air and listening for noise/rumble may also help diagnose a bearing if it's bad enough. You can repeat your wobble/slack tests and diagnose worn trunion/kingpin bearings, etc. once the wheel bearings are tight as well. You can also have someone turn the steering wheel back and forth while the front tires are on the ground while you feel/inspect below for slack in steering connections, look for cracks in the frame, etc. You can replace suspension bushings, etc. to tighten things up as well. This is all too much information though for where you are and for now just focus on getting the front bearings tight and then go from there.
You also need to get a plan in place for all of the 80s regular maintenance needs from fluid changes to axle service to knuckle and driveshaft greasing. I'd DIY all of that as doing maintenance is a great way to stay current on general condition and issues your 80 may have and helps you operate it with more confidence, esp. if you ever go off road.
You can read up on how to set the preload on the front wheel bearings by dropping this into Google:
wheel bearing torque site:forum.ih8mud.com
You'll need the correct, large socket and a torque wrench then set the inner nut to 30-40 pounds before then tightening down the outer lock nut.
There are a few tricks to getting the flanges off but I have good luck unscrewing the flange nuts until they are almost off of the studs and then hitting the side of the flange with a hammer until the cone washers pop loose. Keeping the nuts on the studs helps avoid cone washers flying away. It usually doesn't take much hammering on the side of the flange near the stud (but not on the stud) to knock each cone washer loose.