@Itsky, you’re definitely asking the right questions. And getting a lot of answers depending on perspectives. It’s no wonder because as simple as a battery might seem, there’s complicated integration issues. Some fundamental issues that people are ignoring. I’ll give you the my interpretation as an avid camper/RV’er, and engineering judgement.
Firstly, I think it’s important to acknowledge some major drivers and constraints:
1) AGM is not compatible with the factory alternator/charging system (voltage too high). Nor is it compatible with underhood temps (compounding the voltage problem and prematurely “cooking” nice batts). If one is selecting AGM, it should be remotely located outside of the engine bay. Flooded lead acid batts should be used in the engine bay and when tied to the engine electrical system as that is what it’s designed to charge. Cheap, durable, and proven.
2) Who wants to “plug-in” a car regularly? I refuse to do this even for my RV. Wouldn’t it be nice if it maintained itself?
3) KISS – less cost, more reliability, ease of install
4) Redundancy for starter batt – game changer today is the lithium jump battery.
5) Maximize usable amp-hours
6) Weight – people often dismiss this. Many will at some understand after building up their rig to full weight the compromise to handling, efficiency, capability, durability, etc. It should always be considered.
If dual onboard batts is a must because of lots of built in onboard accessories, I would do this documented here -
https://forum.ih8mud.com/threads/kiss-dual-battery-upgrade.1110226/#post-12070553
If one’s setup is more modular and can utilize a portable batt, that is absolutely the way I would go. Ease of setup. Ease and flexibility of use. More usable amp hours. As expensive as they are for even the premium Goal Zero brand, I’d say they’re actually cost competitive compared to a built-in dual battery system with all the wiring/chargers/relays/fuses/batts. Many include a nice built in inverter too.
Upgrade to a single group 31 deep-cycle flooded lead acid starter battery to maximize reserves for vehicle lighting, etc. Though I would first upgrade to LEDs as it’s always better to conserve than to upgrade reserves.
Buy a lithium jump starter battery as mitigation for starter battery depletion.
If you need the ability to extend your reserves, buy a matching Goal-Zero solar panel that can be moved around out from under shade.