So, I have had a somewhat similar path to you.... I started with a 2015 Ram 1500, and while I really did enjoy driving the vehicle and all of the modern tech, it was pretty finnicky. I only made it about 8mo in the vehicle before deciding that I needed to get out of it before it started really costing me money to fix. I traded it in on a 2015 4Runner, which is now my wifes vehicle. Personally, I cant stand the 4Runner, but the ruggedness led me to my current 2009 Land Cruiser which I absolutely adore. I dont think I could ever get back to a Ram from my Land Cruiser.
For the record, we have been toying with the idea of dumping the 4Runner for a Tundra... Trade-in values on the 4Runner are absolutely wild right now. I went and test drove a couple Tundras, and they felt VERY similar to the Land Cruiser. So much so that if I were to let her drive my Land Cruiser, and I took on a Tundra, Id probably be okay with it. So for me, having had the Ram, the 4Runner, and the LC200.... the only thing Id even be able to tolerate would be a Tundra.