Not sure what you are looking at but McMaster does have graded metric fasteners. You can get 10.9, M12x1.75x90mm
I think people are confusing SAE and Metric ratings. Metric are 8.8, 10.9, 12.9, etc, SAE is 2, 5, 8, 9. An 8.8 is roughly equivalent to an SAE grade 5.
"ISO Class 10.9 fasteners are metric high-strength steel screws and threaded rods. They're commonly found in valves, pumps, motors, and other high-stress applications. They have a minimum tensile strength of 150,000 psi. Use them with Class 10 or higher nuts."
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