Welp. I found the source of my drive shaft vibration and it makes me want to jump off of a bridge.
The dude who lengthened my drive shaft at first loosened this dust cap on my slip yoke. My driveshaft uses Neapco ends and they have this thread on dust cap thing. It didnt vibrate before i took it to him because it was tight, he loosened it at some point and didnt retighten it. I didnt even know that it could be loosened or existed because toyota driveshafts dont use that.
Then when i took it to get balanced, no one noticed it was loose. I just so happened to hit my arm on it when i was under the truck running my ARB rear hose and felt it spin. I tightened it and 98% of my vibrations are gone. I think the remaining barely noticeable noise is because the ujoints are now worn out from spinning out of phase. Unfortunately i already ordered a new driveshaft from Tom woods and cant really return it because its a custom shaft so im probably going to just run it.
New driveshaft from tom woods has "1/4 ton" 1310 Ujoints and .120 wall tubing.
Old driveshaft has .134 wall tubing and 1350 "one ton" ujoints.
Unfortunately i think driving my old stout driveshaft so long unbalanced might have worn out the ujoints a bit so i guess ill run the smaller one and keep the stout one as a spare or something.
Silver lining is that i now know more about setting up driveline angles that i ever wanted to in my life, and my entire setup is completely dialed in
Here is the little collar that caused all of this bull****.