The guy was wrong about the thermostat, but the other part about asking a toyota tech, there is merit in that.
There is a range of temps that are normal.
There is deviation in the coolant temp sender.
There are 7 degrees of variance in the thermostat opening.
There is a number of some degrees of variance in the valve lift at 203 degrees. Only a specified opening of 10mm of travel at 203 degrees. IT could be less travel at 203 degrees, which is bad, or more than 10mm of travel at 203 degrees, which is good. It also needs to close at 104 degrees.
The fsm does not state a normal operating coolant temp. (that I know of) You can only infer from the opening and closing of the thermostat that it is related to normal coolant temp operating range.
You can take into account the AC compressor shut down temp and the idiot lights turn on characteristics on the combo meter.
Changes over facelift years- exhaust and intake designs, evap systems etc will all affect coolant temp, and oil temp. They have changed to higher and higher temps over the decades.
New part change outs may keep coolant temps lower to a level that YOU think is correct. Educate yourself.
Chase whatever temp you like but if it's in the operating range of the thermostat, and a certain amount above and below, it's normal.
Don't rely on my opinion, do your homework.