Dude- way to make it out alive! On the other hand- not way good that you got in over your head with wife and kids in your rig. We men do stupid things, and that's best left between us an not shared with the women in our lives.
Lesson learned
The upshot: What a great opportunity to do the necessary upgrades you've always wanted;
Front bumper $1k
Winch $1k
Rear bumper: properly set up $2500
Sliders $900
Depot headlights $350
Suspension upgrade for all the extra weight $1800
Some rhino liner for the rash: $500
$8000 in upgrades to make your truck all mo better - 1/2 the cost of those body shop quotes.
Get a check for as much as you can from ins. and have fun with your rebuild

Lesson learned
The upshot: What a great opportunity to do the necessary upgrades you've always wanted;
Front bumper $1k
Winch $1k
Rear bumper: properly set up $2500
Sliders $900
Depot headlights $350
Suspension upgrade for all the extra weight $1800
Some rhino liner for the rash: $500
$8000 in upgrades to make your truck all mo better - 1/2 the cost of those body shop quotes.
Get a check for as much as you can from ins. and have fun with your rebuild