It's hard to diagnose from afar. Tires can have an effect on this even as the tires you got are largely correct. It could be alignment but the way it shakes suggest it's compliance (suspension and tires) related. Unless they got the alignment so wrong. Factory spec is pretty flexible on camber.
When it shakes, does it feel like more than just steering feedback? Do you feel like stability is effected and the whole car is hopping?
Does AVS damper adjustment make any difference? What position are you in normally? Does changing it to sport or comfort change the symptoms?
Have you ever serviced AHC and changed fluids? I'm more suspicious of lost compliance in the AHC system either due to fluid or a prematurely failed accumulator.
I agree with
@Zill that these suspensions are incredibly robust and to damage it would not be something subtle. Bushing wear is not usually an issue until 200k miles even in harsh use.