Those numbers can definately be done. I actually have a 5.9 24v new long block assembly with an SAE #2 flywheel housing on it right now. Honestly, you hit it right on the head. I'm head over heels for the 8.9. Also, I really suck at tuning motors, and I hate doing it.
Actually, the B series, C series, and the ISL all can use the same flywheels, too. 12mm x 1.25 on a 110mm bolt circle. 8 bolts. 130mm crankshaft diameter.
My transmission choice actually represents a greater weight increase over a standard transmission than the ISL over a 5.9. The 5.9 in full battle dress should be 1100-1200 lb. The ISL is ~1600 lb, if you don't get the 2007 EPA model year and later bloated ones. (EGR cooler, particulate filter). Now step up in size from the 8.9 and watch the weights really climb. The 14L cummins in my 5-ton weighs around 3500 lb! It is really hard to beat the power, weight, and reliablity of the C series and the ISL. Motorhome folks love them, since they pull like a 10+ liter at much less weight.
The Dana 70u center section is rated to 7500 lb. The rockwell outers should have no problems with the weight or tire size. I'd go Dana 80, but you can't get one in 3.07.