I don’t believe it’s the ignition switch because the relay at the passenger foot is triggered every time I turn the key. I cleaned all the grounds that would affect starting, I used my jumper cables to ground starter to different parts of the frame, I bench tested both starters I own and installed at different times, I dismantled the circuit opening relay and it looks perfect, newer optima battery, etc, etc. I probably tried to start it a couple thousand times in those few hours being stranded. Finally went to check the relay under the drivers side dash and noticed it was pretty hot, dipped the body of it in cold water for about a minute, plugged it back in and started on the first try. That would be a massive coincidence, but I am open to the idea that it could be. I need to dig in with a multimeter this weekend and see where the break down is I guess. This morning it started fine for the first 5-6 times, now doing it again. I’m a construction manager and have nine houses all inside one large neighborhood so I am constantly stopping and starting the car, and sitting for longer periods of time in my car with it running in the air conditioning on. Temperature always is right in the middle. Have owned for 7-8 years so know the ins and outs of her and do all my own wrenching (except tranny rebuild). This one is stumping me, Especially since I’ve thought I’d fixed it on 3-4 different occasions over the last three months. It seems like It may only occur when it’s warmed up???
if you find your self needing that 85910-14020 relay , contact fellow member @3_puppies , Paul will most likely have a good one for you
that looks like a Mortgage payment dealer part , if its not already DISC. / NLA ?