I'm coming up on the time of a rad replacement, 200K miles, 17 years old. It's amazing it has lasted this long, i have random times where i have to refill the coolant though, not sure where it went. OP (my brother in law) mixed coolants, red/green for about 5-6 years now, hasn't done any damage to the cooling system that i can see. If my rad does go, i'll do a full flush and refill with red coolant.
I have had to top off the reservoir twice now, one time about 8 months ago, the res was completely empty, i filled it up, looked for leaks and didn't find any. Yesterday, the res is now at below the "low" mark. Not sure where the coolant went, did a compression test and didn't find any leaks. ?? i'll fill it up again and keep an eye on it.
You're fine with the mixing of coolants, all automotive fluids must be compatible, SAE rules says so.
Just imagine if you could only use one brand of motor oil, or power steering fluid, or gear oil, or gasoline...