Sproggy, my post stated, "The round ones can be replaced with square ones". Apparently, yours were.
By the way, looking at the photos, you really don't have any effective rear motor mounts. It looks like someone attempted to make up for deteriorated rear mounts with washers. It could be the bad rear mounts are contributing to your shuddering. You mentioned the shuddering isn't as bad in reverse, which means the torque exerted on the transfer case by the drive shaft is the opposite of forward gear, supporting the fact that bad rear mounts may be at least part of the problem.
Also, Coolerman's picture shows a triangular-shaped bracket that is the anchor point for the clutch linkage tensioning spring. This bracket is missing in your pictures.
You should consult a factory service manual on the proper method to adjust the clutch linkage AND adjusting the three fingers on the clutch plate. Flying by the seat of your pants is not the way to go..