I appreciate the stories and info! You definitely have a lot more experience than I do.
It sounds like you prefer running locked 4WD to RWD in the snow/ice. Is that right? Just wanting to be sure I understand correctly.
That was crazy! I can see how locked 4WD would've been a lot worse in this situation. However, would FWD or RWD been just as good in this particular case? It sounded like you had to coast with neutral throttle, which should've been just as possible with RWD or FWD.
Not arguing for RWD or FWD over AWD in this case, just thinking that all three would've done about equally as well.
I don't doubt that you can go faster with AWD. AWD really helps you put the power down. And AWD is a lot smoother than 4WD, for sure. And if you need to get places in a timely manner you can probably do it with AWD, while also increasing risk.
That makes a lot of sense. Definitely not a good situation to be in.
RWD seldom (never?) beats any of the other options when operating on low traction road surfaces. AWD (with a open center diff) is better than 4WD (no center diff) in just about every on road scenario except when loosing traction on one wheel and therefore depowering the other three is a risk and one that will create an adverse situation. An icy hill climb is pretty much the only scenario that comes to mind right away... or towing someone up a muddy hill (see below.

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In the incident I mentioned where traction was lost at high speed in a curve and throttle modulation was required; yes, once the slide had started and until traction was finally regained, since it was incumbent to not apply power or braking force to the tires, the type of power system was not the primary factor in regaining control. However up until the instant that traction was lost, and beginning immediately after traction being recovered, AWD has the ability to apply power most evenly to all 4 tires and therefore, all else being equal, it will maintain traction better and regain it better and keep/restore control better than FWD and far far....far far far better then RWD. 4WD would have been at a a worst disadvantage in this case regardless of power modulation as the very mechanics of the systems would have forced traction loss at one corner at least and prevented regaining it until the vehicle was traveling in a perfectly straight line.
It is not just snow and ice either. I made a trip out to Manley Hot springs recently. Middle of summer. As it happened it rained damn hard the day before I headed back and all of that day on the road back to Anchorage. I know that most lower 48ers don't think of muddy conditions as highway conditions, but it does happen. The last 85 miles of the Elliott Highway to Manley is a dirt road. A maintained dirt road, not old two track or anything. There is enough mine truck traffic over it that is gets maintained pretty well. That means that it is graded routinely (but seldom compacted) and in the case of this road it gets a heavy dose of Calcium Chloride.
Add a good drenching of rain to that and we had 85 miles of greasy slippery slime to negotiate. I lost track of how many hills I climbed applying small counter steers constantly as the rig wandered back and forth all the way up, how many ruts tried to decide where I was going and how many curves I could feel myself drifting in. As it happened I was driving a 4Runner with the option to select RWD, 4WD or AWD so I got to play around and see just how they all compared. In this case, as slimy and sloppy as the road surface was, 4WD was right at home chewing along at a safe and controllable 45-50 mph. The AWD option was only marginally more sure footed. RWD could not make it up some of the steeper sloppier hills unless I just insisted on trying to prove that it could and approaching them like some of of "prove I am a man" off road obstacle. The GF nixed that approach quickly.

If I had the option of FWD, I am certain that it flat out would not have made it up most of the hills.
In fact I wound up pulling some nondescript fwd econobox up one of the hills Just a few miles out of Manley. Now, I *did* lock it into 4WD for that. I was after all driving a 4Runner on street tires.
The qualities of AWD over the other drive systems is not about going faster or increasing risk.For myself, it is about having more traction and control on low traction surfaces at any speed and improving performance/safety and reducing risk. If you have to operate on less than ideal road surfaces AWD is superior at keeping your tires connected to that road. What you do with that more efficiently retained traction is up to you.
Mark...