Yes you pull 90° from a radius line drawn from the axis of the axle to the lug stud.
"I followed the 48lb/ft spinx5 spinx5 loosen spin tighten outer nut at about 3 lb."
When you say outer nut do you mean the jam nut? If so it gets tightened to 47 foot pounds.
My modified FSM procedure for the front:
1. With just the adjusting nut (inner nut) installed tighten to 43 foot pounds turn left and right at least 3 revolutions, it will be stiff.
2. Repeat step 1.
3. Loosen the nut to hand tight, do not turn.
4. Tighten the adjusting nut to 48 inch pounds ( 4 foot pounds ) turn left and right at least 3 revolutions. It should turn with less resistance now.
5. Repeat step 4.
6. check pre-load and adjust torque of adjusting nut as necessary to get in the range (IMO the top of the range is preferred, especially with new bearings)
7. back off adjusting nut about 1 flat (60 °) do not turn
8. Put in the lock washer and the Jam nut, tighten the jam nut against the lock washer and adjusting nut to 47 foot pounds. turn left and right at least 3 revolutions,
9. Check pre load same as step 6. If it is bad start over at step 1. and use more or less back off in step 7.If it is still good then bend one or more of the ears on the lock washer against the jam nut to prevent movement,
10. Check for play in the bearing, there should be none. It should turn smoothly with little noise
11. check for play every few K miles until about 20K
The reason for the back off in step 7. is that when you tighten the jam nut (outer nut) it takes up any play in the adjusting nut threads (inner nut) making the preload higher. Slightly backing off the adjusting nut makes up for this getting you back where you started after tightening the jam nut.
The rear is similar but has important differences
Tarbe, to check the preload you have to remove the wheel, brake pads and drive plate, that means dealing with cone washers and most likely you will need to have a new drive plate gasket on hand. You are right that it would be best but I think checking for play by grabbing top and bottom is good enough for a spot check.